Financial Domination- What is it really?

Many think that financial domination is the same as some form of escorting or being a Pro dominant but I'm here to cut that shit out real quick when you talk to me. I am tired of seeing these sad fucking slaves and subby boys expecting me to jump through some fucking hoop to get their money. What the hell do you think I am- some fucking trick pony? In other words you're not looking for a Domme but some cheap or over priced used whore. Will I voice with you? Sure if you end up paying enough for the privilege. Will I cam? HA! How much money do you have in your bank account and credit cards? I am here to hurt you- period. I am not your fucking therapist, opra, or your damn Mama. So if you are looking for either of those then get a Mommy Domme or go on a child avi and get adopted to get coddled.

A Financial Dominant does not cater to a slave's demands or whims. A slave pays for the pleasure of knowing that he is contributing to her life in some meaningful way and giving his pathetic existence some measure of meaning. I find physical and sexual pleasure in seeing men suffer as they give me their money and whimper and cry about how much they are losing and how much I'm hurting them. Here's a news flash. I don't give a good goddamn how much you hurt because it's too entertaining for me to stop. And let me add this, try to compare me to some other insipid, idiotic, childish domme and I will cut you off so fast it will make your head spin. Some male sub came to me and when I started to exact my control he wanted to say how I wasn't like another Mistress he knew and had owned his collar. Like I care? Umm... One answer- Hell No. I'm not some other Mistress or Domme and I could give a fuck all what they do or how they do their shit. You want that then go crawling back to them like a beaten dog with your tail between your legs.

Now a Pro Dominant does not necessarily have sex with her client but they tend to "cater" to the submissive's wants and urges. I honestly don't see this as productive as the submissive is calling the shots. But I can also see the benefits for new submissives that wish to learn how to please a Mistress, how to better themselves in their service and explore their fetishes in a safe and controlled environment. But again, I'm not a Pro Dominant but I do not knock your jobs ladies.

An escort is exactly what it says- a whore. They are not necessarily a dominant or a submissive although they may be paid to play this role it's not their original and natural state. They're getting paid to fuck you, plain and simple. While I on the other hand wouldn't even touch your sorry asses or those tiny straining little pricks of yours. Honestly I'm commanding all you idiots out there that expect a Dominant to conform to your whims to get a quick fucking buck- go use that money to buy a fucking clue or rather come give me your money and I'll throw you to the dogs where you'll find out real quick the way things work.

------ The Bitchest Diva Kay

A New Beginning...

This is probably my fifth or sixth blog since I joined up with blogger or learned about this entire phenomenon. I have to admit that I tend to lose focus and forget that I even have a blog so this is going to be a challenge as I plan on finally finding the time to keep up with this one. I have to ask myself on occasion why I even start one but there's probably hundreds of reasons that I'm not in the mood to explore or have to time do delve into. I'm going to keep this blog centralized around my second life and less about my real although I may throw in tidbits of my real here and there that is not my real focus. Suffice it to say that I have a satisfactory real life, a good job, great friends, loving family, and a wonderful boyfriend who I adore even though he can be a pain in my ass on occasion but that comes with the territory of dating a Leo and a musician- yes you heard me the first time, musician.

To get a bit about my personality- Hmm... how should I go about this. If it's scattered then you'll have to either find another blog or learn to deal with it because I tend to write as things come to my mind and not care so much about proper structure of my sentences- one thing I never liked about English class by the way. I'm a bitch. Yes, I said it and I'll gladly repeat it one more time. I'm a total, sweet, sadistic, sometimes sociopathic, all around BITCH. Now just because I am a bitch it doesn't mean that I'm not likable or that it's impossible to get along with me. I have many facades like the next person but I'm just making sure that you all don't get side-swiped by my sweet demeanor. I will tell you exactly what I think of you with no hesitation whatsoever straight to your face. You're supposedly an adult that's able to handle the cold hard truth and not a kicked puppy that is slinking away with their tail tucked between their legs. So you have been warned. If you turn out to be shocked because you were too lazy to read through this entire thing then that's on you.

I have done many things within second life, mainly out of boredom and because I have to constantly be mentally stimulated to get anything done or else my brain tends to short circuit on idling away. I have done everything from writing, running a magazine, model, owning a business, etc. I'm a jack of all trades and I love expanding my horizons and experiences and anything I put my mind to comes to fruition. Now if you read this and think that, "Wow this woman must be unemployed if she's got so much time to do so many jobs." Well I can nip that shit in the bud right now- I'm gainfully employed with a wealth of knowledge to back me up. I just hate being bored at all costs and if I take on some jobs and learn some new trades then so be it.

Another thing that some may or may not know about me, depends on where and how you met me in second life, I am a dominatrix that enjoys a large variety of BDSM fetishes. I could probably list the things I've tried and mastered in both RL and SL but then I would probably be here all day so I'll just list a few of my favorites to save some time.

Humiliation (Physical/Verbal/Emotional/Public/Private)
Financial Domination
RL Control
Pony Play
Strap Ons
Tease and Denial
Orgasm Control (Short term/long term)
Chasity (Short term/Long term)
Blackmail
Pain (Mental/Physical/Emotional- light/mild)
Boot/Heel Worship(recieving)
Bondage (Long term/short term/strict/mild)

I've been a Mistress in real life for some years and honestly it's not a game in my eyes nor is it a "kink" but my lifestyle choice. Yes I enjoy the vanilla from time to time but my life would not be complete with out BDSM in it or seeing a boy curled up at my feet cleaning the dirt from my heel as I hold the leash to his collar. It's something that will always be a part of my make-up and personality. You think of BDSM as nothing but a bit of spice to add to your life or something to "play" at then I'm probably too far out of your league.